The second post in our series, Pioneer Culture, and Laura Ingalls Wilder is about working hard. What did working hard mean 100 years ago and how can we compare that to today?
“Every job is good if you do your best and work hard.” -Laura Ingalls Wilder
Think back to the “Little House” books and what Laura described in them. There was no getting around working every day at the Ingalls’ house, was there? Each and every meal was work, from growing or sourcing ingredients, to preparing the food, to doing the dishes! Almost everything they needed to survive had to come from their own sweat and hard work, and Laura grew up in that kind of environment.
She and her siblings understood that everything in their lives required someone to work hard, oftentimes themselves. And you know what? I think we’ve forgotten that teaching a strong work ethic from a young age builds character and appreciation.
Every job is good if you do your best and work hard
Today, we tend to try to hand everything to our children, we want more for them than what we had, but I think it is actually doing them a great disservice.
Starting young with chores and building on home responsibilities will give children a sense of belonging, a place in the family that is needed and important.
Now, I’m not talking about making them do everything. No, no, no. But I AM talking about involving your kids in everyday things, especially age-appropriate chores. As a mom, you’re always working, right? I mentioned laundry and cooking earlier.
Those are two very easy things that you’re already going to be doing in your life, so they’re the perfect opportunity to bring your kids alongside you and let them help you wash vegetables, fold the laundry, sweep the floor, package the leftovers, pick up school books and toys, etc.
Back in Laura’s day, children were an integral part of work at home. School and chores were of equal value. Sometimes, the school had to wait for the harvest.
Today, school takes all of the kids’ time, so they don’t learn work like caring for a home, so we need to be intentional about including our kids in those types of things today.
Some examples of things to learn as they grow older are: Knowing how to fix a toilet flapper, unlock a garbage disposal, keep the air conditioning drain pipe clear, or unstop a float valve before your a/c quits working are all learning to care for a home.
You can include your kids alongside you while you work on these projects, and you will eventually pick up on things they really enjoy learning.
Now, if YOU haven’t learned those fixes yet, watch a repairman, ask questions and make sure your kids are watching too, and of course, there is Youtube!